His best friends girl
I'm not a jealous person nor am I a fool. I've seen it before. He's falling for his best friends girl. He is so entralled with everything she says & does. He compares me to her all the time. And even asks her if she agrees with some of my ideas & has her explain me to him! He won't listen to me but hangs on her every word! If he treated me the way he treats her we would get along fine. She can do no wrong & I can do no right in his eyes. He works so hard to impress her & couldn't care less what I think. I got pissed because he sang "Our song to her"- how would he like it if I sang the song to some other guy?
He has always talked about buying or starting a business. But now that I plan to with the sale of my house- he won't even discuss it with me. She said she wouldn't want to own a business- let someone else deal with the headaches. Right away he agrees with her! Never does he back any of my opinions.
It's all the little things- the way he mentions her name- spends the evening hung on her every word- so interested in what she did that day- so impressed with her opinions- so happy to see her. He says he's just being polite! I wish he would be that polite to me- he was the first two months we were together. He treats her the way he treated me when we first started dating. I sure don't want to watch him treat another woman like he's on a date with her!
I've seen it before- I know the signs- inocent flirting that leads to more. I never thought my sister would screw me over when she was flirting with my b/f either. The attraction of the forbidden-
It's time to get out- I'll be moving out of two homes this month. He won't even miss me.